At the outset of Sherry Turkle’s excerpt from The Second Self, she boldly claims that “Children use the computer in their process of world and identity construction”. As for assimilating them into this progressive, technological generation, it executes its job by familiarizing them with the processes of the computer, its programs, and by stimulating their minds on the plethora of educational and non-educational video games. However, Turkle fails to specify the amount of time spent on this computer apposed to other activities that can help children grow and mature. Turkle’s points are valid if the children are also using other mediums to discover themselves, and not relying on the computer as their sole source to “forge their sense of themselves” and use it as their only tool towards “development of their personalities and ways of looking at the world”.
The dilemma created by this sole, and I stress the term sole, reliance on computers to build ones personality, is the creation of an inward, intelligent person who spends all his or her time on video games like MMORPG’s and studying. In my past years of playing wow, I’ve conversed with, in the game and in real life, many players who fit into this mold, which has lead me to understand that completely shutting yourself off from the physical world can cause stunted social skills and a reluctance to step outside the now norm of staying on the computer.
I’m not saying that socializing does not happen on the internet, as I have clearly seen in wow, but there is a large distinction between typing from behind a computer screen and conversing with people in real life. For example, on the internet when something extremely awkward is said, it is most likely ignored and the conversation continues. However, in a face to face conversation when that same line is verbalized, it could result in public humiliation and the end of the conversation.
A possible solution to this issue is a balance between time spent on the computer and time spent participating in some sort of social activity, be it sports, band, clubs, etc. I don’t want to sound like I’m on some high horse preaching about nerds, I’ve always been a gamer and will continue to be one.
